Divorce and separation - frequently asked questions



Question

My ex and I have reached an amicable financial settlement between us.  Why should we use Solicitors who might create a dispute and ruin our amicable relationship?

Answer

Any number of people reach an amicable financial settlement between themselves hoping that that will be an end to it. 

Unfortunately, not only may the settlement not be fair (particularly if one party is stronger than the other) but also, either party can return at any time in the future and override that agreement.  It is essential to have a clean break enforceable document such as a Separation Agreement or a financial Consent Order to ensure that you can securely plan for the future.  Contrary to popular belief, Solicitors do not wish to upset an amicable relationship between separated people. 

Solicitors will do their best to try and keep that relationship friendly whilst trying to ensure that both parties have a fair deal.  Solicitors will also work hard to try and implement terms of a financial settlement reached between the parties in the most cost effective way.

 

Click on the links below for some other questions and answers on getting divorced:

Will I be able to keep the children?

Why should I use Solicitors?

Wouldn’t it be cheaper and easier to do my divorce online?  

What can I do when my ex won’t let me see the children?

I'm worried my ex is mistreating the children.  What can I do?

I am afraid that if I start divorce proceedings, I won’t get enough to live on.  Is this the case?

Will I have to stay in the family home while divorce proceedings are going through?

If I start divorce proceedings but remain in the property with my husband/wife, I am afraid that he/she will bully and harass me and possibly be violent.    What should I do?

My husband/wife has said to me that if I start divorce proceedings I won’t get anything.  Is this the case?

 

If you would like to know more, please contact Robert Worthing, in confidence and without obligation by emailing Robert or by calling 08450 990045 and ask to speak to Robert or someone in the Family Team.

This document is provided for information purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Professional legal advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this document.